"Life was never the same thereafter." "Life changed and how....there was something about that moment....." "Its really difficult put in words but from that day on things changed...I changed...what I once thought impossible is what I have achieved." "....and it was precisely that turn the game on into their favour..." "It was moment that defined his greatness as a freedom fighter, as a leader....." How often have we heard one of the above sentences or statements that in one way or other talk about the defining moment (turning point / life changing moment / that aha! moment) Buddha had it when attained Nirvana. Jesus experienced it , especially during his passion in the garden of Gethsemane garden. Martin Luther King had it when he delivered ..his speech .."I have a dream". Gandhi had it (probably when he was thrown out the train in South Africa). Nelson Mandela had it when he challenged the apartheid reg