A Good Human Being...give it a thought

Do you know a really good human being? Well I am one. Sounds strange? Not to me. For me it's one of the best things that could have ever happened to me. Imagine a what a place the world will be where every single human being thinks, believes and acts as a really good human being. What difference it will make. Phenomenal.

And to be good human being one does not need to do anything extraordinary, one has to just be. That's good enough. Find joy in life's little things. Appreciate people (it gets them going and willing to go the extra mile). Smile (it increases your face value). Wish (a simple good morning, good afternoon, good evening or good night makes a lot of difference or wish someone the joy of his /her life). Thank (it could be a taxi / rickshaw driver or someone who offered you a seat in bus). Help (it could be something as simple as passing a pen/pencil or even a paper clip). Say I Love You (if you are married nothing like it...or why only you better half, why not your Mom or Dad or Brother or Sister). Pray ( it just takes a few words and faith in God). See the beauty of life (when was the last time you saw a sunset? or a rose...and said it was beautiful).

There are so many other such simple things in life which we can just do without really putting a great effort. Simple isn't it. But then someone said "It's simple to be happy, but very difficult to be simple"...may be it's not that difficult after all.

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